Category Archives: Mortality

Musings about getting older – the physical, mental, and attitudinal changes that come (good and bad) – and the inevitability of death – our own and that of those we love.

In the Long Run

Intimations of death by freeway driving; warnings of deterioration by refusing to drive on the freeway. What’s a girl to do? Continue reading

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When We Go

Two exchanges overheard at the ballpark lead to some serious thinking about what my life means, now, at the end of it, and later. Continue reading

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The First Day

Last January 1st, I wrote the piece that follows this introduction to try to quiet the noise in my head after my father’s death just a few weeks earlier. Last spring, writing after the death of his own father, Rabbi … Continue reading

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Passports & Bathing Suits

Reflections on the completely gratuitous ravages caused by the passage of time. I mean, who asked it?   The hits just keep on coming. Nothing brings you into touch with your ‘not quite as toned as you’d like’ almost-60-year-old body … Continue reading

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Trudge Trudge

What if it’s not that I’m old, it’s just that I never paid attention to music? Would that be better?   As, ahem, much older friends and family members start hitting 60 and 65, I am stumped for gift ideas. … Continue reading

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Memory Fails Me

Scooping up the two aces, she adds them to her pile, her total now at 13 pairs. Turning over a nine of clubs, she puts her head to one side, making a show of thinking about her next move, but … Continue reading

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The Other Victims of 9/11

On 11 September 2001, about 3000 people died in the terrorist attacks on New York and Washington. Today, on the 10th anniversary, their nation stops again to mourn those 9/11 victims. People around the country — and even in other … Continue reading

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The Old Man’s Friend

My 88-year-old father died last December. This is dedicated to him. Pneumonia is the old man’s friend. Passing along this wisdom from his cousin-the-doctor to my then 20-something self, my father is amused by my momentary startlement.  But my slight … Continue reading

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A Lovely Ride

Forget all that Mars/Venus stuff. The difference between the sexes is this: women lie about their weight, men lie about their height. I already knew about the former trait — never mind how — and a male colleague tipped me … Continue reading

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