Category Archives: Relationships and Behaviour

Thoughts on what we do and why – men and women, parents and children, friends and strangers.

No, No, It’s Fine. Really.

Of course I’m OK to do it all. Continue reading

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Whirling Dervish

Irma and me. Continue reading

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Umm, No

In praise of free speech and free ignoring. Continue reading

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A Conversation with Tammy Wynette

Miss Wynette? Come in please. I’m the new lyrics editor here at Epic Studios. I have a few questions about your latest song. If it’s all right with you, I think we should just go through it together, line by … Continue reading

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Not Yet 60

The mid-afternoon autumnal light slanting across the parking lot warms the day and lifts my heart, an involuntary response to something in the quality of the light. The air has a crispness we don’t get in the heat of summer. … Continue reading

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Sayin’ Somethin’ Stupid

An encounter with a gracious Glaswegian and a comment remembered from a decades-old sexual assault case in Edmonton come together to remind me that I can always choose how I respond, both to silly comments and to egregiously offensive ones. … Continue reading

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Devoutly To be Wish’d

Dealing with strangers on the phone elicits an array of non-reactions and helpful reactions (Yay!) and suspicious, hostile, downright irritating reactions (Boo!).   All that information is on the website. Ouch. It’s not the words, it’s the tone. Biting. Impatient. … Continue reading

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Coming to Terms

Teasing apart the hairball of issues jumbled together in the school dress code issue and its news coverage.   Do you think I look like a hooker? Wearing knee-high boots, a super short skirt, and a tight, low-cut top, the … Continue reading

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Nuts, Trees, and Falling Distances

A taste for Latin jokes – who knew it was coded in the genes? What’re you drinking? The “How the hell are ya?” greetings done, the bartender gets down to business with his patron — newly arrived but clearly not … Continue reading

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